A friend of mine asked me "What's your Fedi, can I follow you from Mastodon.art" and I told her "No, that weirdo blocks every trans woman who self-hosts, you need to move" lol.

The question is where, what would be a good server for a trans woman / kinda lewd furry / game developer / music composer who's new to fedi? Probably would prefer to use mainline masto or a fork.

Answer quick or she will pick a terrible option!!