@nicemicro @unfa by being very selective on the content that is hosted there. my instance is not open (though I would make an exception for unfa)

that said, it is a bit pricey at 40eur/month, but it handles all the stuff for me and kxstudio, so I think it is worth it.
from personal website, to nextcloud, to peertube, to gitea, to rocketchat, to mastodon.
and seems like I can still easily add a few more things if needed.