@unfa going to be real honest here, I think you have a very big bias in this topic, which makes it very hard to talk/discuss/debate with.
I can try anyway..

When I say that porn is often a escape-goat, I mean in attributing a lot of bad stuff to it. It is not just violence, but for example "decadence" and the whole stigma/tabu of anyone working in the area. People treat it as this ugly disgusting thing, but it is just human nature (we can say animal nature, as they masturbate too)